The things I don't understand, can't comprehend (same thing?) and try to forget are apparently the lessons that I will always remember.
Something I've learned today.
I have a hard time understanding how people, during times of grief , suffering or hardship, keep everything to themselves. I have a hard time understanding this, b/c I too do this and so I wonder, how does one solve this issue? Is it better to ignore everyone you know until the 'coast is cleared' and then host a press conference and tell everyone about it, or, still never say anything and move on with life.
I'm not sure anymore.
It's not just times of grief either. I am being general because most individuals can associate themeselves with this situation. In the past, I have neglected friends, family, close co-workers etc due to any particular issue which usually was associated with school, work, life, friends or lust. You know, the usual shiat. :P
I guess my frustration is more due to the fact that I don't know how to help during these moments. Yes. Better to stay out of it then piss someone off. I think it's a curse to always want to make people feel better and have that trait imbedded in your veins! It's horrible, b/c then you just become 'crazy' vittoria wanting to save the world instead of 'leave me alone' vittoria , who already has enough shiat on her plate to take care of. It's unfortunet, b/c you mean well, but even just a simple question of 'how are you?' can irritate someone. lol
I laugh now b/c I can name 5 ppl who have asked me that same question and I have just wanted to throw a bucket of water in their face just to shut them up.
*sigh*
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